Christmas Joy

First of all I apologize if you can't see the slide show. For some reason it shows up on my edit post, but not when I publish it. My background is being wierd too! Stupid blog. ANYWAYS! Even with all the stupid drama that came before Christmas (see my previous post) our Christmas celebrations went without a hitch! When they started looking through their stockings I was just waiting for Tristan to comment on the things he saw, but he never did. They were both so thrilled with all of their presents and it was so much fun to watch their excitement!

Christmas Eve morning we went to the Duffin's for lunch. Jason wouldn't have his kids on Christmas until late Christmas day so they opened presents on Christmas Eve at Ron & Becky's. Afterwards we came home and made our gingerbread cookies for Santa. We didn't have time to decorate them, but they were still delicious!

Next we went to the cemetery to visit Liam and sing some carols, followed by dinner at my parents house. After many, many pictures we came home and the kids exchanged the gifts they picked out and bought for one another. When I was reading a Christmas story to Stella, Bill starting "Ho, Ho, Ho"ing down the hall and totally freaked Stella out! Her eyes got real big and she started reaching for the covers. She wanted to make sure she was in bed when Santa was there! It was pretty funny and took some convincing to let her know Santa wasn't there yet.

Christmas morning started about 8:00 for us. The kids ripped through their presents pretty fast. They had a little time to play before heading over to my parents for breakfast. We didn't spend as much time as we usually do at our parents house since we were just with them the day before. It was nice to have most of the afternoon to hang out at home, watch movies, and let the kids play with all their new stuff. Not to mention the wonderful 1 hour nap I took! It was a really fun couple of days!

We still haven't made it to Temple Square, but will hopefully make it there this week before the lights get taken down. I try to keep focused on Christ during the Christmas season and hope my kids are mindful of Him too (as much as a 3 & 6 year old can be at least). I am thankful for my Savior, His example and the many, many sacrifices He has made on my behalf. I hope that in the year to come I can be more like Him. Definitely one of my New Year's resolutions!

BA HUM BUG

As many of you know I have had a few Christmas catastrophe's this year. Both involving poor Tristan. I am just writing this so that I will be able to look back years from now and laugh. Tristan is such a smart little thing and I love him for it, but there are times when I wish he wasn't quite so smart and so dang observant!

Catastrophe #1

It seems like lately Tristan and his best friend Ty are seeing what they can get away with at my house. Tristan loves to make him laugh and will do pretty much anything to keep him entertained. Last week when Ty was playing at our house they were supposedly playing "basketball". I figured while they were playing I would clean the bathroom. Fifteen minutes later I come out to check on them only to find them in the living room setting up the train track that we had gotten him for Christmas. Tristan was busy assembling it while Tyler had ridiculously large scissors in hand trying to open the box.

I had to do a double take when I realized what they were playing with. I was so angry and incredibly disappointed. I was really looking forward to seeing his reaction Christmas morning and now I won't get to see that. Tristan is so cute when he gets excited about things. He gasps and I love it! Now I will miss that. Not to mention all the other presents were by the train set - unwrapped.

We had the presents locked up in Bill's hunting room. The kids know not to go in there since that is where all of Bill's hunting supplies (guns not included. Those we keep in a safe at his parents house) are kept. I had no idea why they decided to go in there in the first place. I still haven't gotten a straight answer from him. Anyways, he pushed the chair over to the book shelf is in our computer room to try and get the key. When he figured out he was too short he came upstairs, got my keys off our key-holder, and unlocked the door himself. Little. Stink.

Needless to say he was grounded from playing with Tyler the rest of the week, won't be getting his train set for Christmas (not to worry though, he will get it for his birthday in Feb.), and won't get the monster truck he asked Santa for. We didn't want to be completely mean about it, but he had to know what he did was not OK. He shouldn't have been in Bill's hunting room and that was our biggest problem with what he did. We talked with him and agreed that if he didn't talk to Stella about the presents he did see and was good, maybe Santa would bring him something else. Maybe. He's been a good boy so far, so I'm pretty certain Santa will leave a few gifts for him.

Catastrophe #2.

Last weekend I went and bought the stocking stuffers. As I was putting all the groceries away Bill called the kids upstairs and so I hurried and shoved the (plastic) bag of goodies in the oven. Yes, we all know where this is going. I figured this was a safe place because the kids wouldn't see it in there plus I wasn't using the oven to cook dinner. Not the brightest I idea now I see in hindsight.

Fast forward a few hours later. I decide to make apple crisp. That's right. I pre-heat the oven. Tristan is my constant cooking companion so he is there by my side always. He asked, "Mom, is the stove hot?" Me: "Yes. Oh shoot. YES!" As I opened the door the Walmart bag is quickly melting, boxes falling apart at the seams, chocolate melting. Seriously! Use your brain Alicia! I threw everything on the counter and quickly covered it with a towel to try and hide it from Tristan. Of course he saw pretty much everything.

I've decided it's too much work to lie to our kids even if it is in good fun. I'm just going to tell him there is no Santa, no Easter Bunny, and where babies really come from and be done with it! I won't, but I have thought about it.

So there it is. My hectic Christmas season. And as Melissa pointed out, this all happened the day after my last post about holiday stress and trying to find my inner zen. It was a nice thought that didn't last more than a few hours! Ah well. Merry Christmas and a Ba Hum Bug!

'Tis the Season to be STRESSED?

I'm not gonna lie. I am feeling the holiday stress this year! I wish I wasn't because I LOVE this time of year. I always look forward to Christmas and try not to get wrapped up (no pun intended) in the stress that comes with it, but this year I'm feeling it a little. I am trying to find my inner zen (hence the picture above). Just when I thought I was done with the kids shopping I keep remembering something else I was planning on getting. Then there's the teachers, leaders, etc., etc. I haven't even sent out Christmas cards yet! They've been kind of an after thought, where most years it's the first thing I get done!

So I want to know how you all deal with Holiday stress and what some of your traditions are? We will be going to see the lights at Temple Square tomorrow. It will be nice to focus more on "the reason for the season". It's so easy to get all-consumed by the presents. I need to remember what Christmas is really about and not worry so much about the presentation under the tree. I really think the parents care more about that than the kids do! I know I do!

Last year when my dad talked in sacrament during Christmas he talked about giving a gift you want to give the Lord. Something you want to change, improve, or give up all together. Write it down, wrap it up, and put it under your tree. Maybe this year I can give up stressing too much and enjoy being in the here and now more.

Anyways, I hope you all (along with me) can find some peace and joy in the season. Stress less and focus more on what Christmas is really all about. Merry Christmas!

Stella's Dance Recital

Stella had her Christmas dance recital today. I have to admit I was a little nervous about how it was going to be after seeing her at her dress rehearsal 2 days ago. She looked bored, tired and pretty serious. Granted we had had a long day, but still. Today I was amazed by her gracefulness and how she remembered all the dance moves! She was so beautiful up there I can't help but feel a little emotional and extremely proud of her!

 

The sweet taste of success!